The divorce laws have changed today in England and Wales. I’ve noticed that people who have strong opinions about divorce and remarriage often haven’t been divorced. These life experiences usually bring better understanding and deeper compassion. Dogma can cause hurt. Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. Be kind.
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Stigma used to be the word applied to something people did that was socially unacceptable. Fortunately, those days are long gone, there is more understanding these days, even in Religious settings. Perhaps people no longer see that judging others is messy and not in concordance with a more enlightened time. And I thank God for that.